August 14, 2013

Bayi lambat berjalan

kenape eh? kenapa?
ke mommy ni jenis cepat melenting?

balik kampung je..
'biarkan anak nangis jgn asek angkat je."
"jangan asik dukung anak je, nanti lambat jalan."
"agaknye tak diberi makan"
"agaknye tak cukup tidur."


mommy marah!
jiwa mommy memberontak!
mmy jenis takleh ditegur (degil nih)... tp sejak da kawen ni lepas kene basuh ngn suami kurang la sket kedegilannya. 
takkan setahun aeyyman dengan mmy , mmy tak tau bila dia lapar???? 

mmg sejak jadi mak ni, mmy bersikap lebih protective especially towards aeyyman.

last-last mommy confess kat ayah. ayah tadah telinga.

"B, dia ada dalam perut you, penat2 u mengandungkan 9 bulan, abes tu dia nangis takkan sy nak tengok je? diorang tak hormat hak sy sebagai mak, tak percaya naluri ibu yg Allah bg.

sy tau bila dia nangis marah,
dia nangis geram,
dia nangis sedih...

ada masanya dia nangis sy biarkan je.

suami angguk.

okey ni some research. mommy yg dukung anak. keep doing that! takde salah nye.

When Babies Usually Walk

There are early walkers and late walkers. Around fifty percent of babies usually walk by one year, but there is a wide normal range of walking, from nine to sixteen months. Walking is a matter of coordinating three factors: muscle strength, balance, and temperament, and the latter seems to influence the age of walking the most. Babies with easier temperaments often approach major developmental milestones more cautiously. Since crawling is speedier than walking anyway, confirmed crawlers are content to zip around on the floor like miniature racecars and show no interest in joining the tall and busy world.
Late walkers are more likely to be content to entertain themselves with seeing and fingering fun than with motor accomplishments. A late walker goes through the crawl-cruise-stand-walk sequence slowly and cautiously, calculating each step and progressing at his own comfortable rate. When he does finally walk, he walks well.
The early walker, on the contrary, may be the impulsive, motor-driven baby who has raced through each motor milestone before parents could get their camera ready. While there is no definite profile of early walkers, they tend to be high-need babies who early on left the lap stage and squirmed out of infant seats. Body type may also affect the age of walking. Lean babies tend to walk earlier. Early and impulsive walkers are often more accident-prone than their more cautious walking mates.
Parents who carry their babies a lot often ask, "Will I delay her walking by carrying her around so much?" The answer is no. In fact in our experience, and in the studies of others, babies who are the product of the attachment style of parenting (for example, worn in a baby sling for many hours a day) often show more advanced motor skills. No matter which baby in the neighborhood walks first or wins the speed race, the age of walking has nothing to do with eventual intelligence or motor skills. When and how your baby walks is as unique as his personality.

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